So, you’ve probably seen the headlines. Or maybe a random TikTok of a guy singing "Same Old Love" to Benny Blanco while he was just trying to eat his dinner. The internet had a collective meltdown back in 2025, and honestly, can you blame people? When you see the world’s most famous pop star's boyfriend out with her best friend while she’s nowhere to be found, the rumor mill starts spinning at about 100 miles per hour.
We need to talk about Benny Blanco and Theresa Marie Mingus. Because while the headlines yelled "cheating scandal," the reality was a lot more like a messy episode of a reality show that eventually found its way to a boring, happy ending.
The TikTok That Set Everything on Fire
It started with Harry Daniels. If you don't know him, he’s the guy who goes up to celebrities and sings their own (or their partner's) songs at them until things get awkward. He caught Benny at a restaurant in Los Angeles. Benny wasn't alone. He was sitting right across from a blonde woman who fans quickly identified as Theresa Marie Mingus.
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Theresa isn't just some random person. She was Selena Gomez’s executive assistant for years before becoming one of her absolute closest friends and a business partner in their swimwear line, La’Mariette.
The video went viral. People saw Benny looking a little uncomfortable—probably because someone was shouting lyrics at him while he was chewing—and immediately assumed the worst. "Why is he with Theresa?" "Where is Selena?" "Is he actually cheating?" The comments sections were a literal war zone.
The "Evidence" Everyone Obsessed Over
Once the fire started, the internet started looking for gasoline. People noticed Selena had unfollowed Theresa on Instagram. In the world of celebrity gossip, an unfollow is basically a declaration of war.
Then came the wilder claims. There was a rumor floating around X (formerly Twitter) that Benny had subscribed to Theresa’s OnlyFans. Then someone else claimed Theresa was spotted at Benny’s house alone while Selena was out of town. It felt like every hour there was a new "receipt" that turned out to be just a blurry screenshot or a "source" that was actually just a parody account.
Honestly, it’s wild how fast a narrative can form. One day they're all best friends at a birthday party, and the next, the fans have decided Benny and Theresa are public enemy number one.
Why the rumors didn't actually hold water:
- The Dinner: It turns out Los Angeles is a small town for famous people. Friends eat dinner together.
- The Instagram Unfollow: Selena is known for "cleaning up" her following list periodically. She’s unfollowed friends, costars, and even family members before, often just to take a break from the noise.
- The OnlyFans Rumor: This originated from a known parody account. There was zero actual proof, but it was too "juicy" for people to stop sharing.
Selena’s Masterclass in Shutting It Down
If you want to know how Selena Gomez handles drama, look at May 2025. She didn't release a statement. She didn't tweet a shade-filled quote. She just dropped a photo carousel.
Right in the middle of all those "Benny Blanco and Theresa" cheating headlines, she posted a bunch of nostalgic photos. One of them? A picture of her and Theresa Marie Mingus, looking perfectly fine. She also posted a super sweet photo of Benny playing with a dog and his nephew.
It was a silent "shut up" to the entire internet.
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Basically, she let the world know that whatever happened—if anything happened at all—the trio was still a unit. It was the ultimate "nothing to see here" move that actually worked.
Where Are They Now in 2026?
Fast forward to right now. It’s January 2026, and the "scandal" feels like ancient history. Why? Because Benny Blanco and Selena Gomez actually went and got married in September 2025.
We just saw them at the 2026 Golden Globes a few days ago. They were wearing coordinated Chanel—Selena in a black velvet gown that apparently took over 300 hours to make, and Benny looking actually quite sharp in a matching suit. They weren't just "together"; they were "newlywed bliss" together.
After the show, they didn't go to some exclusive, high-stress afterparty. They went to a diner with Martin Short and Steve Martin to eat breakfast for dinner. If there was ever any real "Theresa drama," it clearly didn't break the foundation of what they have.
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The Bottom Line on Benny and Theresa
So, what’s the takeaway here? Most celebrity "cheating" scandals are just a mix of bad timing, weird camera angles, and fans who are a little too protective.
Theresa Marie Mingus is still in the inner circle. Benny is now officially "Mr. Gomez" (well, sort of). And the internet? It’s already moved on to the next conspiracy theory.
What you should do next:
If you're still following the "who's following who" drama, check Selena’s recent tags. She often uses her Instagram stories to highlight her friends' businesses, including Theresa's swimwear line. It's the best way to see who's actually in her good graces without relying on tabloid headers. Also, if you're curious about the music they've made together, go listen to the deluxe version of I Said I Love You First And You Said It Back. It’s basically a diary of their relationship that explains more than any TikTok rumor ever could.