Let’s be real for a second. If you spend more than five minutes on celebrity TikTok or Twitter, you’ve probably seen the edits. There’s this weirdly persistent thing where fans are convinced Finn Wolfhard and Gracie Abrams are a thing, or should be a thing, or once were a thing.
It’s confusing.
One minute you’re looking at Stranger Things Season 5 updates, and the next, you’re in a deep-dive thread about whether a song on The Secret of Us is about a skinny boy from Vancouver. Honestly, it’s a lot to keep up with. But if you came here for a wedding announcement or a confirmation that they’re dating in 2026, I have to break it to you: they aren't. In fact, their actual love lives are headed in completely different directions.
The Truth About Gracie Abrams and Paul Mescal
First things first. Gracie Abrams is very much taken. And no, it’s not by Mike Wheeler.
Since the summer of 2024, Gracie has been linked to Irish actor Paul Mescal. You know, the Gladiator II guy? They’ve been pretty low-key, but by mid-2025, they basically stopped hiding it. They were spotted at Glastonbury—Gracie was literally on Paul’s shoulders during an Olivia Rodrigo set—and that was pretty much the "hard launch" everyone was waiting for.
Fast forward to right now, January 2026. Just a few days ago, they were seen leaving a Golden Globes after-party at the Chateau Marmont. Gracie even posted a series of super sweet behind-the-scenes photos on her Instagram Stories praising Paul’s performance in his new movie Hamnet. They have matching tattoos of an owl. They wear matching rings. Basically, they are "locked in," as the kids say.
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So, Where Does Finn Wolfhard Fit In?
If Gracie is with Paul, why is Finn’s name always in the mix?
It mostly comes down to "the lore." Years ago—we’re talking 2017 or 2018—Gracie (who is three years older than Finn) made some comments online about him when he was still a young teenager. It was standard "fan girl" energy, but because of the age gap at the time, people on Reddit and Twitter have never really let it go. It’s one of those things that lives in the "internet archives" and gets brought up every time one of them trends.
Beyond that, they move in the same circles. They’re both young, incredibly successful, and have that specific "indie-alternative" vibe that brands love. But as of 2026, Finn is actually flying solo.
Finn has been pretty vocal lately about his "deliberate" choice to stay single. In an interview with Variety back in August 2025, he mentioned that he’s been focusing on his professional life and doesn't really have the time for a committed relationship right now. He’s 23, he’s wrapping up the biggest show in the world, and he’s been living back home in Vancouver with his family to stay grounded.
He did have a long-term relationship with actress Elsie Richter that started around 2021, but they haven't been seen together in years. Most people assume that fizzled out a long time ago.
Why the Rumors Won't Die
It's the "it girl" and "it boy" effect.
- Proximity: They both hang out with the same group of Hollywood young-bloods.
- Aesthetics: They both have that specific "I own a record player and wear vintage sweaters" energy.
- The Internet's Memory: Fans love a crossover episode, even if it's manufactured.
There was a brief moment where people thought they might collaborate on music. Finn has his band, The Aubreys, and Gracie is, well, Gracie. But so far, nothing has materialized. If they’ve even met in person, they haven't posted about it.
The Verdict on 2026
If you’re looking for the TL;DR version of the Finn Wolfhard and Gracie Abrams situation, here it is:
- Gracie is dating Paul Mescal. They are very happy, very public (for them), and recently celebrated New Year's 2026 together with friends like Daisy Edgar-Jones.
- Finn is single by choice. He’s focusing on finishing Stranger Things and his own directorial projects.
- The "drama" is old news. Anything you see linking them romantically is likely based on old social media interactions from nearly a decade ago.
The reality is that these are just two talented people living their lives. Gracie is busy being the "it girl" of pop music, and Finn is preparing for life after Hawkins.
If you want to keep up with what's actually happening, your best bet is to watch Gracie’s Instagram Stories for more Paul Mescal cameos or wait for Finn’s next big indie film project. Everything else is just noise.
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Next Steps for Fans:
If you're interested in the music side of things, check out Gracie’s The Secret of Us deluxe tracks—there’s plenty of lyrical "evidence" to dissect there, just mostly about her current life in London and NYC, not Vancouver. For Finn, keep an eye on his upcoming directorial debut, Hell of a Summer, which is where his head is really at these days.