You know those couples that just seem too polished for reality TV? That was the vibe with Kara Bass and Guillermo Rojer when they first landed on our screens during 90 Day Fiancé Season 9. She was the high-energy real estate agent from Virginia, and he was the sweet, much younger waiter she’d met while partying in the Dominican Republic. On paper, it was the classic "older woman, younger man" trope, but with a side of balloons and bachata.
But as 2026 rolls around, the "happily ever after" part of the story has hit some seriously jagged rocks. Honestly, if you haven't been keeping up with the latest Happily Ever After? updates and the social media breadcrumbs, you've missed the messy reality of their current status.
The Breaking Point: Separate Bedrooms and Career Wars
It’s one thing to argue about wedding budgets—it’s another to stop sleeping in the same bed. During their recent stint on 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After? Season 9, Kara and Guillermo dropped a bombshell: they were living in the same house but sleeping in separate rooms.
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The tension wasn't just about who forgot to do the dishes. It was deep. We’re talking about fundamental disagreements over their futures. Kara has been laser-focused on her music career, specifically as a Bachata singer. She’s been performing, releasing singles like "On My Own," and basically trying to make it as a pop star in her 30s. Guillermo, meanwhile, hasn't exactly been her biggest cheerleader. He feels like the music industry is a "fairytale land" and doesn't see the stability in it.
Then there’s Guillermo’s side of the friction. He decided he wanted to be a pilot.
He actually quit his job as a hotel executive manager—the job that provided the family’s health insurance—to pursue flight school. Kara didn't take that well. At all. She called his plan unrealistic, especially since it would cost upwards of $50,000 in tuition while he’d be making zero income.
The Separation: Is It Final?
Basically, the "official" word as of late 2025 and heading into 2026 is that Kara and Guillermo are separated.
During the Happily Ever After? Tell All, Kara confirmed the news. They are "separated, living separate, and co-parenting," though technically they remain married. It’s a weird, limbo-like state that many 90 Day couples find themselves in. Guillermo moved out of the home they bought together in Virginia, leaving Kara there with their son, Nicolas Antonio.
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The drama reached a fever pitch with accusations flying. Guillermo suggested that Kara had been unfaithful, though she countered by saying he was simply "projecting."
- Status: Legally married but physically separated.
- Living Situation: Kara remains in Charlottesville, VA; Guillermo lives elsewhere.
- Child: They share one son, Nicolas, born in December 2022.
What Most People Get Wrong About Their Split
A lot of fans think this was a sudden "he cheated" or "she cheated" situation. It's actually more about a power imbalance that started on day one. Remember when Kara wouldn't let him have a computer? Or how she constantly talked to him like a child because he was younger?
That dynamic didn't age well. As Guillermo grew up and started wanting a say in their financial future, the "boss" vs. "employee" vibe of their marriage crumbled. Guillermo expressed that he never felt like an equal in the relationship. When you add the pressure of a toddler and the financial stress of two people trying to launch wildly different, expensive careers, it’s a recipe for a blowout.
The Real Estate vs. The Music
Kara is a "Jill of all trades," and she’s not kidding. She’s still a licensed real estate agent in Virginia, but her heart (and her Instagram feed) is clearly in the entertainment space. She’s been doing:
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- Bachata Music: Performing live and releasing studio tracks.
- Modeling/Influencing: She’s incredibly active on social media, often appearing in fashion collaborations.
- OnlyFans: Like many other cast members, she’s utilized the platform for additional income.
Guillermo, for his part, has been much more low-key. He mostly posts about his adventures—white-water rafting, traveling—and lots of footage of little Nico. The "disheveled" look her mom mentioned on the show? Fans actually defended him, saying he just looked like a tired dad doing his best.
What’s Next for Kara and Guillermo?
Is there a chance for reconciliation? Maybe. At the end of the last Tell All, Guillermo mentioned he still wanted to try and make things work for the sake of their son. But Kara seemed much more checked out. She’s been spotted out and about in Charlottesville with other 90 Day stars like Emily and Kobe, allegedly telling people at wineries that the divorce is being finalized.
If you’re looking for actionable insights on how to track their status, keep an eye on these specific indicators:
- Instagram Follows: As of now, they do not follow each other. If that changes, it's a huge sign of a thaw.
- The Last Resort: Rumors are swirling that they might appear on the next season of 90 Day: The Last Resort. This is the franchise's "hail mary" for couples on the brink.
- Legal Filings: Virginia law usually requires a period of separation before a no-fault divorce can be finalized. If they separated in mid-2024, we could see an official filing in 2026.
At the end of the day, Kara and Guillermo's story is a sobering reminder that "vacation love" (meeting at a bar in the DR) doesn't always translate to "suburban Virginia reality." They’ve got a long road of co-parenting ahead of them, regardless of whether they ever share a bedroom again.
If you're following their journey, pay attention to the small details in their posts rather than the big announcements. The missing wedding rings and the separate holiday celebrations tell a much clearer story than any scripted TV segment ever will.
Actionable Takeaways for Fans
- Check the "Tagged" Photos: Often, they remove photos from their main grid but forget to hide the tagged ones.
- Watch for Pilot Updates: If Guillermo actually starts flight school, it means he’s secured his own financing and moved on from Kara’s financial control.
- Listen to the Lyrics: Kara’s music has become increasingly "breakup-coded." Her latest tracks are basically a diary of her moving on.
The era of Kara and Guillermo as a "power couple" is effectively over, but their individual journeys in Charlottesville are just getting started.