If you still call her Toya Wright, you’re technically living in the past. These days, the New Orleans-born reality icon goes by Toya Johnson-Rushing. It’s a mouthful, but it represents a massive shift in her life that a lot of fans are still trying to piece together. For years, her identity was tied to the high-profile men in her life—the most famous obviously being Lil Wayne. But after a rocky second marriage and years of public scrutiny, she’s finally found something that feels, well, normal.
Enter Robert "Red" Rushing.
He isn't a rapper. He isn't a producer looking for clout. Honestly, he’s a businessman who seems to prefer the sidelines, even if he’s been dragged into the reality TV spotlight by association. People are obsessed with them because their relationship feels like a "redo" for Toya. It’s the stability she never quite grabbed during her younger years.
The Robert Rushing Era: More Than Just a "New Man"
Toya and Robert started popping up on feeds around 2017. At first, it was all very "low key." Toya had just come off a messy divorce from Mickey "Memphitz" Wright, and the last thing she needed was another public spectacle.
Robert is an entrepreneur and sports manager. He owns the 2 Commas clothing brand. He's also deep in the fitness world, often seen leading "Boo Camp" sessions with Toya in Atlanta. This wasn't a whirlwind Hollywood romance; they were friends first. They met in Las Vegas through a mutual friend, and while the sparks were there, they didn't rush it.
The biggest turning point was 2018. That’s when they welcomed their daughter, Reign Ryan Rushing.
Suddenly, the "mystery man" was a father. The dynamic shifted from "Who is Toya dating?" to "Are they ever going to get married?" Robert eventually popped the question in 2019 during an episode of T.I. & Tiny: Friends and Family Hustle. He did it on a rooftop in Atlanta after a helicopter ride. Very classic. Very TV-friendly. But if you watch the footage, Robert actually looks more nervous about the camera than the proposal itself.
That Cabo Wedding Was Actually a Statement
It took three years from the engagement for the wedding to actually happen. On October 15, 2022, the couple tied the knot in Cabo San Lucas, Mexico.
This wasn't just a party. It was a massive reunion of Atlanta royalty. Reginae Carter (Toya’s daughter with Lil Wayne) was there, obviously. So were Tiny Harris, Monica, and LeToya Luckett. But the most interesting part of the wedding wasn't the designer dress or the sunset views. It was Toya’s decision to officially shed the "Wright" name.
She had gone back to her maiden name, Johnson, shortly after the engagement. By marrying Robert, she became a Rushing. For her, it was a way to scrub the remnants of her second marriage and start over with a clean slate.
Why Robert Rushing is Different
- He stays out of the drama. While Toya's family life can be explosive (especially with her brothers' tragic deaths and her mother Anita's struggles), Robert is the "calm."
- The "Double R" Brand. They’ve turned their marriage into a business. Between their YouTube channel, The Rush Life, and their joint fitness ventures, they are building a "regular" family empire.
- The Step-Dad Dynamic. Navigating a relationship with Reginae Carter isn't easy when the world sees her as Lil Wayne's daughter. Robert has managed to be a consistent male figure without overstepping, which is a rare balance in reality TV circles.
What Most People Get Wrong About Their Relationship
A lot of people think Robert Rushing just "appeared" to save Toya from her post-Memphitz slump. That’s not really the case. Toya was already building her Weight No More movement and her boutiques. Robert didn't "save" her; he complemented what she was already doing.
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There's also this weird rumor that they have a "perfect" marriage. If you watch their newer show, Toya & Reginae, you see the cracks. They argue about the kids. They argue about Robert being too controlling or Toya being too busy. It's refreshing because it's boring. Their "drama" is the kind of stuff you’d hear from your neighbors, not a script on VH1.
Basically, they are the "un-celebrity" celebrity couple.
Moving Forward: The Rushing Legacy
In 2026, the couple is still going strong, focusing heavily on their digital content and their daughter’s upbringing. Reign has become a social media star in her own right, often outshining her parents with her personality.
If you're looking to follow in their footsteps—at least the "stable relationship" part—there are a few takeaways here. First, stop carrying your ex's last name if it's weighing you down. Toya's rebrand to Johnson before becoming a Rushing was a psychological "reset" that worked. Second, find someone who works out with you. Their "Boo Camps" aren't just for show; physical activity is a core part of how they bond.
Next Steps for You:
- Check out 'The Rush Life' on YouTube. It gives a much more authentic look at their day-to-day than the edited reality shows.
- Look into the 2 Commas brand. If you're an entrepreneur, Robert’s business model for his apparel line is actually a decent case study in niche marketing.
- Follow Toya’s fitness journey. She’s been very open about using exercise to manage fibroids and health issues, which is a great resource if you're dealing with similar struggles.