Why 10 Things I Hate About You is Still the Best Rom-Com Ever Made

Why 10 Things I Hate About You is Still the Best Rom-Com Ever Made

If you grew up in the late nineties, you remember the paint-splattered overalls. You remember the Doc Martens. Mostly, you remember Heath Ledger singing "Can't Take My Eyes Off You" while dodging security guards on a stadium bleacher. 10 Things I Hate About You isn't just a movie; it’s a time capsule that somehow managed to stay fresh while every other teen flick from 1999 aged like milk left in a locker.

It’s weirdly smart.

Most high school movies treat teenagers like idiots, but this one assumed we knew who Sylvia Plath was. It assumed we could handle a modernized Shakespeare adaptation without needing our hands held. Based on The Taming of the Shrew, the film took a problematic 16th-century play about "breaking" a woman's spirit and flipped it into a story about female agency and the absolute absurdity of high school social hierarchies.

Honestly, the casting was lightning in a bottle. You had Julia Stiles, who brought this sharp, prickly energy to Kat Stratford that felt authentic to every girl who ever felt "too much" for her peers. Then there was Heath Ledger. Before he was the Joker, he was Patrick Verona, the guy who allegedly ate a live duck but was actually just a softie who liked cigarette smoke and Vesuvius.


The Shakespeare Connection Everyone Misses

People talk about the "modern retelling" aspect, but the writers, Karen McCullah and Kirsten Smith, were surgical with the references. It’s not just the names. Sure, Kat and Bianca are the Minola sisters in the play, and here they are the Stratfords (a nod to Shakespeare’s birthplace). But look at the dialogue.

There’s a scene where Patrick is trying to woo Kat and says, "I burn, I pine, I perish." That’s a direct lift from Act 1, Scene 1 of the original play. It’s a tongue-in-cheek wink to the source material that doesn't feel forced.

The movie works because it acknowledges its roots while throwing out the parts that don’t fit a modern feminist lens. In the original play, Katherine is "tamed" into submission. In the movie? Kat doesn't change who she is. She just finds someone who actually likes the person she already was. That’s a massive distinction. It’s why the movie still resonates. It isn't about a girl changing for a guy; it's about a girl finding a guy who doesn't ask her to.

That Poem Scene Was Actually Real

We have to talk about the ending. The poem.

"I hate the way you talk to me, and the way you cut your hair..."

Julia Stiles actually cried during that take. It wasn't in the script. She wasn't supposed to break down like that, but the emotion of the scene just hit her, and director Gil Junger kept the cameras rolling. It’s the rawest moment in the film. It’s the moment where the armor of the "angry girl" finally cracks, not because she’s weak, but because she’s vulnerable.

There is a vulnerability in being seen.

Most teen movies today use polished, over-produced emotional beats. 10 Things I Hate About You felt like it was bleeding a little bit. It was messy.


Why the Soundtrack is a 90s Masterpiece

You can’t mention this movie without the music. Letters to Cleo on the roof? Iconic.

The soundtrack featured everything from The Cardigans to Salt-N-Pepa. It defined the "alternative" sound of the era without being pretentious. When Kay Hanley stands on the roof of Padua High (which is actually Stadium High School in Tacoma, Washington) and belts out "I Want You To Want Me," it cements the film's identity.

It’s loud. It’s energetic. It’s a little bit rebellious.

Music supervisor Mary Ramos chose tracks that mirrored Kat's internal world—bands like Bikini Kill and The Raincoats are mentioned because they were the pulse of the Riot Grrrl movement. The film gave mainstream audiences a taste of a subculture they might not have known existed. It made "difficult" music cool for a suburban audience.

The Supporting Cast Carried the Weight

While Ledger and Stiles were the stars, the movie would have crumbled without the bench strength of the supporting actors.

  1. Larry Miller as Walter Stratford: The overprotective dad who made his daughters wear the "pregnancy belly." His line delivery was impeccable. "I'm hip, I'm cool, I'm groovy" is still quoted by dads who are definitely not hip, cool, or groovy.
  2. Allison Janney as Ms. Perky: The guidance counselor writing erotic novels in her office. She was a chaotic force of nature.
  3. David Krumholtz as Michael: The neurotic guide to the school's social circles. His chemistry with a young Joseph Gordon-Levitt (Cameron) provided the narrative engine that kept the plot moving.
  4. Andrew Keegan as Joey Donner: The ultimate "pretty boy" villain. He was the perfect foil because he was so incredibly shallow.

The film spends time on these characters. They aren't just background noise. They feel like people you actually went to school with, even if they're dialed up to eleven for comedic effect.

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That Iconic Location: Stadium High School

If you’ve ever seen the school and thought, "No way a public school looks like that," you’re right. It looks like a castle.

Located in Tacoma, Washington, Stadium High School was originally intended to be a luxury hotel in the late 1800s. After a fire gutted the interior, it was converted into a school. The "bowl" where the marching band plays and Patrick performs his big musical number is a real-life landmark.

Filming there gave the movie a visual weight that a generic Los Angeles soundstage couldn't replicate. The grey skies of the Pacific Northwest added a moody, "grunge-lite" atmosphere that suited Kat’s character perfectly. It grounded the story. It felt lived-in.

Lessons in Modern Masculinity (From 1999)

Looking back, Patrick Verona is a fascinating character study.

On the surface, he’s the "bad boy" trope. He smokes, he drinks, he has a mysterious past. But he’s the only male character in the movie who doesn't try to control the women around him. Joey Donner wants Bianca as a trophy. Cameron initially wants Bianca because she's pretty.

Patrick? Patrick spends the whole movie listening.

He buys Kat a guitar. He goes to the bookstore she likes. He learns about her interests not to manipulate her (well, initially he does, but it shifts), but because he genuinely finds her interesting. He’s comfortable with her being smarter than him. In a decade dominated by "jock" culture in cinema, Patrick Verona was a breath of fresh air.

He showed that being a "man" didn't mean being the loudest or most aggressive person in the room. Sometimes it just meant being the guy who shows up and stays.


Practical Takeaways for Fans and Cinephiles

If you’re looking to revisit the film or understand its impact better, there are a few things you should do to get the full experience.

  • Watch the "making of" features: The cast genuinely liked each other. You can see the chemistry in the bloopers and behind-the-scenes footage. Ledger and Stiles actually dated for a bit during filming, which explains the sparks.
  • Read "The Taming of the Shrew": See how much they actually kept. It’s fun to spot the character parallels, like Lucentio becoming Cameron.
  • Visit Tacoma: If you’re ever in Washington, Stadium High is a public building. You can see the bleachers. It’s a pilgrimage site for rom-com fans.
  • Listen to the "10 Things" Playlist: Find the original soundtrack on Spotify. It’s one of the few movie soundtracks where every single song is a banger.

The legacy of 10 Things I Hate About You isn't just about nostalgia. It’s about a movie that respected its audience. It didn't pander. It didn't simplify. It gave us a heroine who was allowed to be angry and a hero who was allowed to be kind.

Twenty-seven years later, we’re still not over it. And honestly? We shouldn't be. It’s a perfect piece of pop culture that reminds us that even when we’re "just" teenagers, our feelings are huge, our voices matter, and sometimes, the person we hate the most is the only one who actually gets us.

To truly appreciate the film's technical craftsmanship, pay attention to the cinematography during the prom scene. The use of color—specifically Kat’s dark blue dress against the warm, golden lights of the dance floor—was a deliberate choice to show her stepping into a new phase of her life without losing her edge.

Next time you watch, look for the small details: the stickers on Kat's car, the specific books on her nightstand, and the way the background characters react to the main plot. It’s a densely layered movie that rewards repeat viewings.

Go watch it again tonight. You know you want to.